For Reference - Discounting

Discounting is unawarely:

• ignoring a significant aspect of reality that helps in ending a situation, solving a problem, overcoming a difficulty or resolving a conflict;
• ignoring an endowment such as awareness, capacity for evaluation and for applying rationality; 
• inability  or incapacity to express one's thoughts, feelings, emotions and opinions;
• denying oneself the option of asking for help, assistance or guidance;
• not giving, receiving or asking for strokes; not rejecting or getting rid of painful, hurting strokes; and not doing self stroking;
• moving to game roles - persecutor, rescuer or victim roles;
• being over-accommodating, sacrificing own needs; 
• overlooking existence and significance of stimuli, problems and options; overlooking solvability and change possibilities in matters of problems; and use of personal ability in ending situations, solving problems, overcoming difficulties, facing challenges and ending conflicts;
• inability to sanely, safely and effectively end situations and solve problems; 
• expressing helplessness; 
• expecting someone to come to rescue without asking for it; 
• yearning for love, attention and praise without asking for it;
• justifying, professing and promoting thinking, feeling behaviour that is objectionable, unsocial, harmful or hurting;
• inability to use or recover capacities to overcome compulsive behaviours (drivers) and inhibiting behaviours (injunctions);