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TA Script Theory 11 (Script is a self authored life plan written in early childhood. It governs the general course of a person's life. It is 'directed' to achieve a life goal or script payoff. ) "Words with special meaning are marked * in text and explained in Notes" Becoming Script-free - 2.4 In  1-8.8  the need to install a Permissive Parent and an Acquiescent Free Child were covered. In   1-8.9  Installing an Empowered Adult, Separating Person from Behaviour and Being Non-Expecting were covered and in 1-8.10  use of some other modes were presented. Now are considered three main methods: Using the back door: This method is the most effective method. Awareness is the key. Recovering the capacity to say 'hello' to oneself and to others all the time works wonders. [ Click this link about terms, concepts and ideas used here. ]  Any and everything that affects us , be it a thing, animal or person; event, occurrence or happening; recalls of people...

TA Script Theory 8 (Script is a self authored life plan written in early childhood. It governs the general course of a person's life. It is 'directed' to achieve a life goal or script payoff. ) "Words with special meaning are marked * in text and explained in Notes" Becoming Script-free - 2.1 Becoming script-free is not an easy process. It is also not impossible to become script-free. Let us imagine a pail of water placed on a gas stove with flame on. The water is sure to heat up if not boil after a while. We are disturbed because the water is hot. We want to cool it. There are two ways. One way is to add ice to the water to cool it. Another way is to put off the flame and allow the water to cool. To me anything done that does not put off the flame deep within the psychic organisation is not going to render the script inactive. It shows up one way or another. A script be it good or bad, beneficial or harmful provides a structure to live our life. Thi...

TA Script Theory 7 (Script is a self authored life plan written in early childhood. It governs the general course of a person's life. It is 'directed' to achieve a life goal or script payoff. ) "Words with special meaning are marked * in text and explained in Notes" Becoming Script-free - 1 Eric Berne is a rare author who provides solution before laying out the problem. He says this: How do you say Hello?  How do you say Hello back? and  What is everybody doing instead of saying Hello?  He provides answers soon after the questions. They are these: In order to say Hello, you get rid of all the trash which has accumulated in your head ever since you came home from the maternity ward. In order to say Hello back, you get rid of all the trash in your head and see that there is somebody standing there or walking by, waiting for you to say Hello. After you say Hello, you get rid of all the trash that is coming back into your head; all the after-burns...